A day and a night.

Yesterday was a rather cool day! I had brunch with a cool guy. I think we have been fairly decent friends for the last few years even though we don’t get together in person very often. Ok, so our gap for hanging out together has been almost a year this time. So he was rather shocked when he saw me. I guess I have changed a lot more than I thought. He hit on me like mad, which rather surprised me. And he called me 30 minutes after I dropped him off to me how much fun he had and how he wants to do it again soon. I was amused. Yay.

Corset shopping with the girls was pretty fun. I got to spend some time with women I want to know better. This is good. After the main portion of the day was over I spent close to an hour talking one-on-one with one of the women. I learned some very personal things about her and I feel really happy that she thinks I am trustworthy enough to share things with. It is quite a compliment from her.

The DHP rocked! I had so much fun. I drank a lot and flirted even more. I knew the latex cheerleader outfit would be a hit. There were moments that weren’t quite as happy and many more moments that were just great. I can’t make everyone happy at all times though and I need to be ok with that in my head. The Boy tied up the girl I played with at the last DHP. I’m glad she decided to come. 🙂 Yay happy stuff.

This morning I have had a conversation that makes me sad. I don’t want to be the kind of person who “dumps” people. I think that being honest with myself and with someone else about the fact that we aren’t compatible for a variety of reasons isn’t “dumping” them. I think it is just trying to accept the level of relationship we can share. I don’t want to hurt anyone.

19 thoughts on “A day and a night.

  1. japlady

    ok, curiosity is killing me. Dumped whom? Oh I suppose we’ll catch up next time we do treadmill.

    DID I OR DID I NOT TELL YOU THAT YOU ARE NOW THIN!!!!!!

    YEEESH!

    I tell you, you don’t believe me… honey you and I are about the same in terms of relative thinness and you think I”m tiny. Images if me forcing you to stand straight and pull that huge tshirt of yours tight when we were at the gym last time come to mind.

    YEESH!

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  2. lrc

    I think we may have just barely crossed paths at DHP. I had commitments at another soiree up in berkeley and I noticed a couple of attractive young lasses in latex that showed up just as I was leaving.

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    1. Krissy Gibbs Post author

      I was the only person wearing latex that I am aware of. Considering the amount of touching I received and the curious comments about the material I am willing to bet that I am the only person to actually wear latex ever at a DHP. The cheerleader outfit does stand out.

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      1. lrc

        I seem to remember red and yellow. I did a bit of a double take, but didn’t want to stare. I seem to remember someone else wearing something black and formfitting, I didn’t investigate closely, after seeing you, I may just have had latex on my mind.

        Here’s a statement that could be interepreted in many ways
        “When I see you, I think of wearing latex”.

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        1. Krissy Gibbs Post author

          That is what is so fun. People think they are seeing red and yellow. Then they look closer and realize… no… that isn’t yellow… it is clear… I can see your….. Hi! 🙂

          I really could take that comment and run with it… but I’ll be a good girl.

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        1. Krissy Gibbs Post author

          PVC and latex are very very different creatures. I like both for different functions. Although I am more fond of latex than PVC.

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  3. tsgeisel

    How’s that line from the song Garden Party go? Oh yeah: “You can’t please everyone, so you’ve got to please yourself.”

    Life is a sucking black void of pain and agony, so no matter what you do, you’re going to wind up hurting someone sometime.

    And you’re right – if you’re not really compatible, getting out of a relationship isn’t dumping so much as it is making the inevitable clear. Or perhaps a bit of redifinition of your relationship.

    And, no, I don’t really believe that “sucking black void” comment, but it sounded good when it came out of my fingers, so I went with it…

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          1. wheresjuantoday

            Ah! That would be a party to remember. If we had something like that at our house we would have to send the kids away for the night though.

  4. urbanbard

    “I can’t make everyone happy at all times though and I need to be ok with that in my head.”

    The reason I like parties like DHP is that, for the most part, people are pretty good at setting their own boundaries, and respecting boundaries of others.

    Some people go, and get to have great fun playing. Others go and wind up spending more time watching. Is it sometimes a little hard to be on the outside looking in.. yes of course, but what I like about those parties is people seem to be respectful of that. You’re there to have fun, not to make sure others have fun! 🙂

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