I propose May 14th (it’s a Friday) for a “Vanilla’s learn bondage” party at my house. I will help some of my french vanilla friends become just a bit more bent and see some really hot stuff in the process. Yay!
Some basic info for the party (pre-preplanning and such):
You don’t have to be naked to get tied up, so don’t let worries about taking your clothes off stop you from learning about bondage.
You don’t have to have a partner, you are probably already friends with a lot of the people who are invited to this party.
Please don’t advertise this party to other people because my house is small and the guest list is understandably abbreviated.
If you have a primary/SO/person you absolutely are committed to seeing on Friday nights, they are probably invited as well. If you have 4 good buddies who might want to learn too… uhm… I’m not Noah and I’m really concerned about who enters into my home. This is not an open invite party. Ask me though–I’m generally pretty good natured.
You can come and just watch because this isn’t a “play party.” This is a “Help Vanilla’s get more bent” party. However if people stay later than I strictly anticipate and some more serious play goes on… you won’t hear me objecting.
Probably 8pm-12pmish. If people stay later to play more one-on-one… we’ll play it by ear. 🙂
Oh, and this will be my first Friday after finishing the semester. If someone(s) want to give me a celebratory spanking… you won’t hear me complain. 😉
Would people be interested in learning more about rope or gear? Gear meaning we have a rather incredible array of bondage stuff made out of other materials. We could set up the cage if anyone thinks they might like to climb in it… We have a cravat, manacles, a variety of hand-cuffs, leather gear like mad, some stuff made of acrylic…. Oh–if anyone didn’t know we’re perverts.
I’m sure both Tom and I could be pursuaded to demonstrate some of our fantastical suspension abiliites. Not that we are braggarts or anything.
If there is anyone who you think should absolutely be invited to this and you aren’t sure they are seeing this on LJ, send me an email: krissy@bigrock.com
If you think you might want to come but you are nervous and scared and you want to talk to me about it: call me. 408.202.4083 If you are seeing this you are officially on the “I’m ok with them having my phone number” list. 🙂
Party on Wayne. Party on Garth.
You are officially in the day planner.
Looks like I can make it. I’m going to be a pain in the ass and say that I need a week or two to see how behind I am in my classes and if I can afford to have a weekend where I don’t study (did I just say that?).
Introduced the idea to Mark……initial reaction was basically a resoundingly unenthusiastic “yes” (but willing) – a little probing got “maybe a little of each” on the “do you want to tie me up or have me tie you up” question – I think he’s scared of the possibility of hard core stuff or a big orgy……Frankly, I’m a bit intimidated too, but very curious.
It will be quite interesting to meet him in this kind of environment. Tell him that I promise I won’t bite. 😉
This is a party intended to help vanilla’s feel more comfortable. It won’t be hard core. It will be light and fluffy. Or at least the stuff in the living room will be. I will banish people who get too enthusiastic to the upstairs. I doubt an orgy will ensue. That takes lots of negotiation and … yeah. I’m not up for that kind of “processing” right now. Forget it.
In the category of “does this sound weird”…… I’m actually interested in being suspended……I’m pretty flexible and the position you’re in in that picture actually looks fairly comfortable…..I like the idea of the firmness of the fabric and floating above the ground…….
Honey girl…. I don’t think it sounds weird at all. I think it sounds like something that I’m into. 😉
So if it wasn’t clear, I’m really interested in coming, I’m pretty sure my husband will do whatever I want, and I’m looking forward to having a little fun. You’ll have to be gentle with the boy – he’s surprisingly vanilla…..it used to be that I was the conservative, afraid to even talk about sex one, but it turns out, I’m a little freak, and he likes flannel.
The date’s in my Palm.
Is Raven already on the list?
Hell yeah! She can see this entry and stuff. 🙂
And finally got around to looking for it. 🙂 Count me in.
Yay! Yay yay yay yay *bounce* *bounce* *bounce* This shall be so much fun!
I’ll be there! So, do they come more vanilla than me? (The extent of my S&M being bit on the shoulder about a month ago.)
I went through the people who are on the invite list and there are two people (I’m not going to name names) who are as vanilla as you are. If they never choose to respond to this then you won’t meet them though.
So far we need more people coming. Hm. Come on people!
I’ll be there!
You’re not vanilla!
I need some help on herding you vanilla’s through the basics… 😉
It’ll be like herding cats – that’s for sure.
Well, you know what they say about the cat and curiosity…
I’ll be there.
– Mark