I was reasonable. I got all upset about something earlier today. I had a weird bit of reaction to something first thing in the morning and it snowballed into me crying for a few hours and just generally being a big freak.
How did I deal with this you might ask? (Ok, you might not ask. But I’ll bloody tell you anyway.) I went to the person I was upset with. I said, “Wow. I’m really upset about this.” I brought data with me to illustrate what I was upset about.
We talked.
Stuff was resolved.
Go grown ups being responsible and shit.
A big chunk of it was me not understanding. A piece of it was was unclear communication. A smaller piece of it was a difference in value systems. Ok then.
All is well. And I didn’t post a hysterical rant about why he is an evil bastard. Go me. Cause he isn’t. I was just upset.
Wooooooooooooo!
Good for you. Here’s to being a grown up. Sometimes it has its advantages.
Yay for quick handling and clean-up.
Hooray! Good for you! I have found that tends to be the best way to handle something, but it can be so difficult to do.