Things that have been said to or about me.
“You are cute.”
“You are a keeper.”
“I like you, but you knew that.”
“Wow, you are a bitch.”
“I’m worried about you.”
“I trust you.”
“I hate you.”
“I want to fuck you.”
“I’ve climbed in bed with you and you didn’t jump me.”
“I will never forget you.”
“I’ve thought about you often over the years.”
“OHMYGOD you are good at this!!!”
“I miss you.”
“When can I see you?”
“You look like shit.”
“Go take a shower; you smell like sweat and sex.”
“I die in peace knowing your suffering has just begun.”
“It is all your fault.”
“I had a big crush on you.”
“I always respected you; I just didn’t know how to talk to you.”
“You were always so angry.”
“I have never heard you say you disliked anyone, so this is significant.”
“I am looking for the One. The one I will love and settle down with and marry. You will never be it.”
“You are intimidating.”
“I love you.”
“Welcome home.”
Overall, mostly positive. I guess I’m not as depressed. This is what I remember when I try to think of what people think of me. This means that my self-perception is currently rather positive. Yay.
“I die in peace knowing your suffering has just begun.”
ewwwwwwwww. (suspecting I know what that one is about) sounds like the world is better off without the source of that quote. I’d discard that from your list of valid and useful evaluations of what people think of you.
That was in my father’s suicide note.
No, it doesn’t actually play into what I think of myself. But when I feel like shit I think of it and feel bad in general. That it is only on the periphery now is good.
Total agreement. Kind of makes you wish there were an afterlife, so said person would be aware of just how very, very wrong they were.