I ‘hosted’ the Berkeley TNG munch tonight. No one showed up.
I’ve had discussions with a close friend lately that have included a few off-hand comments that have hurt my feelings.
In an attempt to be funny Puppy has said a few things that have near devastated me.
Tonight: I cry. I wonder how much of it has to do with the fact that I’m on BCP and I am due to ‘start’ within the next two days.
I generally get that way the day before, but it passes. Hopefully you’ll feel better soon.
*hugs*
my hormones are unexpectedly kerflooey today. I am SO there with you.
XO
hugs and love
some people need to be told how we feel, even when it seems obvious to us. It just might make some of what you are going through better.
Dude….
If I had known, I would have showed.
Re: Dude….
Me too. Oh, wait, I’m too old. Hey, serves you right for giving a munch and not inviting me 😉
Seriously, I hope you’re feeling better this morning. {{{{HUGS}}}}
Re: Dude….
Ok, can we stop with the feeling persecuted crap?
Re: Dude….
I will if you will
Re: Dude….
is a tribe thing. San Francisco TNG tribe. I’ll invite you.
I wish I had been more coherent to connect with you last night. I think it might’ve helped both us.
Hope you are feeling better this morning…
It’s ok honey. Sleep is important too.
*hug*
Sorry. Didn’t even know there was a berkeley TNG.
Not that I’d be welcome anyway…
Ok, can we stop with the feeling persecuted crap?
Hormones aside, crap happens and, sometimes, it makes us feel bad.
No one shows up at something we host – that hurts.
Sometimes people say things that just don’t hit us the right way – that sucks. And the more intimate that that person is, the more it nails us.
on another note, as part of TOG, I’m glad TNG are carving out a space of their own – go get’em!
Hormones = bad.
people who love you may also need to get that teasing is NOT the way to cheer you up.