Clarification on something:
I would never be ok with my vanilla friends having to ask Puppy’s permission to be my friend or to have our normal interactions. I feel that would be nonconsensually involving people in our relationship and in my opinion that is a boundary violation. If at any time there is any restriction on my behavior or interactions it is my issue to deal with. Never one for my vanilla friends.
There is still negotiation happening wondering if scene people will have to speak to him before playing with me (we have narrowed this down to understanding that I am still the one doing the actual negotiations) but it has not been decided on.
I will never never never never ever expect people who are not in the scene to have any regard for my scene interactions. That is my business. In my opinion it would be like requiring you to play a part in my sex life. Though it might be ok with you if you did play a part in my sex life, it is not ok with me to require that of anyone.
Make sense?
Oh. And cause people keep asking. Yes. He has a name. It is Phil. But you can call him Puppy. It’s really ok. 🙂 He is starting to introduce himself as Puppy. I can’t believe I have had this much influence in such a short period of time…
Further Clarification —
What about your non-vanilla friends (well, okay: me) who see you in ‘non-scene’ contexts… Or at a play party but in a social context?
I like that I can get a hello-hug… I’m more than happy to respect the kiss part (since the only time it’s a chaste kiss is when you’re Miss Patience). I’m definately okay with asking Puppy if it’s possible to play with you (then asking you), but the hug?
Re: Further Clarification —
The only time this rule is likely to be invoked, you will know by watching my behavior that I’m being weird. Don’t sweat it sweetie. 🙂
You really have permission to hug and kiss me. Really. A lot. 🙂
*OMG*…are you serious???
His name is …Phil???…
*cracking up like crazy and I think you know why*
They fucking co-topped me.
JesusChristAllFuckingMighty.
*You sure do wear one twisted pair of panties, little girl…*
*goodness…I’m still not quite able to get my brain around this…*and I don’t believe I should even try…I just watch you enjoy it…*
*Oh, and btw…as for the rest of it…
Good way to put it…and I believe I understood before…
*nodnodnodnod* Got it.
Mmm’k. Phew. ’cause I was gonna get all sad. I’d be very disappointed if Puppy said we couldn’t flirt mercilessly and grope eachother.
Dude! A new icon!
Anyway.
“You can tell Black Sheep that she has standing permission.”
Ahem.
Oh dear, my darling, oh Black Sheep of my dreams… 😀
(I think I would smack him around if I couldn’t have you any more. That would just suck beyond all measure. Especially cause I can’t actually have you. So if I lost what I have, well that would be just pathetic. I mean, we already have one set of monogamous rules to contend with, what’s one more?)
Ok, its not like I ever get a chance to hug you, but I do gotta say I really don’t like having to ask other peoples doms for permission about anything. Though I do not interupt scenes. Even the d/s kind.
I do like to be affectionate at will.
Am I making sense?
Thanks for saying things.
That having been said, I would have severly missed having my ass grabbed at Plough. Despite the snarling and hissing, you’re one of the few people who I actually enjoy and love enough to let get away with that on a regular basis.
THAT having been said, I wasn’t ever too worried about it. I was just going to have my way with you and let Puppy/Phil punish you when I was done 😉