He responded to my message *and* my email. The he in question is Tom. I haven’t really sat down and had anything resembling a conversation with him since the Ireland trip in January. He said that we could remain friends… Maybe we are ready to start that part? We have been broken up for almost 14 months. How much is it still hurting?
It will be good to see him. I miss him fiercely.
Well try it, see how it feels, it could be you guys may need more time…..
but….
YAY!
You know me, strong believer in remaining friends with my ex’s, in fact MOST of my best male friends with the one exception of the gay guy, are my ex’s. If I cared enough to be having sex with them then I want them to stay in my life.
Good for you.
I mean, you left because the romance thing wasn’t (and hadn’t) been working, but not for any abusive* or anti-trust thing.
14 months is hopefully a goodly amount of perspective. I hope it works out for you.
* – quite the opposite in fact, if I recall…