I guess I’m not going to wait.

I had this flash into why I wanted to do the rename. As cute and sassy as rightkindofbrat is, it is also something that I know I would grow weary of. I would get tired of the ‘hehe hehe you’re a brat’ pretty quickly. The point wasn’t that I am just a brat. And as much as the suggestions were well meaning, I have no interest in being identified as a virago or a bitch. Because those things aren’t me either. I’m so many many things. I have fought for years to be ok with who and what I am because people have always told me that I wasn’t right. I wasn’t submissive enough, I wasn’t respectful enough, I wasn’t quiet enough … hell I’ve been told I am the wrong kind of slutty.

But you know what? I am not wrong about any of it. I am exactly the right thing that I am supposed to be. I understand Jaguar’s objection to being the “right kind” of anything, but damnit–I am the right kind of me.

I am the right kind of me.

20 thoughts on “I guess I’m not going to wait.

  1. ribbin

    That’s an awesome name! Now, how the hell did you get it to show up on my friends page? And will it continue to do so or do I have to make it official?

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  2. dorjejaguar

    Darling I understand completely. I have no objections.
    I’m actually rather glad I shared my thoughts with you on it though as they seemed to lead you to explaining your thoughts well enough that you arrived at a truer name.
    Again, you are lovely.
    Congrates on the new name.

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  3. terralthra

    Damn skippy, you are. And there are at least a few people in your life who agree completely, and we wouldn’t have you any other way.

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