I find it interesting that boys tend to come much faster with me during missionary position sex. I’ve noticed that in many other positions they can do the marathon fuck thing but if we switch to missionary… yeah. It’s going to be over soon. This is an interesting situation because I *love* missionary position sex but I also want the sex to go on for a while. Hm.
Uhm… has anyone else noticed that there is a specific position that seems to get you/your partner off WAY faster than others? Girlies in particular–have you noticed that there seems to be a pattern to how guys react to the shape of your bits?
What–everyone doesn’t think about this?
All my test data is sadly out of date. I need more recent experiences before I can (ahem) come to a conclusion.
As a boy I can state that doggy does me in….then again, I’m a sucker for flare (waist to hip ratio).
Anything else I can hold off pretty much indefinitely, though I usually get tired long before that.
Knowing that about you makes me grin really big. 🙂 Yay!
No, I’m not sitting here waiting for comments cause I’m bored… why do you ask?
What Teamnoir says…
I’d never reallly thought about it, but My Guess is that whatever position the people involved are in that allows the greatest freedom of movement, highest level of comfort and removes the need for caution (ie: it hurts if you do this/that/the other thing when in this position) is probably the key combination.
The more energetically “connecting” positions, with eye/heart contact would be more provacative, I believe, for those who welcome/need/want that connection, and less of an issue for those that are avoiding those concepts.
Same here, but for different reasons. 🙂
It is one of the very few positions that hit all my bits right. Plus I dont have the self conciousness of worrying aobut my stomach being seen.
The few times that someone has had trouble with erection with me has been missionary, so I dont like it as much, I tend to worry too much.
Interesting. I’ve had people experience erection issues in dozens of positions so I’m not trained that way.
And I like your stomach. 😛
liking my belly
I usually do, but someitmes not…
and you dont have to live with it.
I think it varies a lot by context and by people. Missionary works well for me when it works. Some other positions work at least as well with most partners, but less well with others. My favorite is a flanquette, actually.
For me, deeper tends to mean coming more quickly. Deep & grinding tends to be the quickest and the most intimate for me. But I can also pause, delay, using shorter strokes, and apply any number of other tricks to keep things going for some time.
I’m also capable of coming without ejaculating, which is a really cool trick because it means I can come pretty much forever. Thing is, when I get into that track, it can actually be difficult to ejaculate, which is sometimes disappointing.
Cause I can do that “orgasm only with permission” trick I find that if I hold off too long on an orgasm it disappears and doesn’t come back. Probably similar to your ejaculation stuff.
Hmm. I’ve never thought on that one but I wish now that I had been watching to see.
Maybe my boo has on opinion on it. That would be interesting (to me, at least).
I love them all…
…but I can understand that – because in missionary you can’t help but see the face and eyes, and that’s just so damn erotic during sex.
– K
I haven’t noticed that so much as the developement of certain favorite positions with certain partners. Things that work well for both of us, get us off reliably but not to fast, work well physically, etc, etc, etc.
In this case I think it has to do with a combination of actual physical fit and the general speed things move at. Is this a match that works better with fast or slow? Deep or shallow? It is someone where I can do all the work or is it more ofa teamwork thing?
But there certainly are positions I tend to prefer no mater with whome.
Like what? *bat eyelashes*
Whatever’s newest. New/unexpected=done fast.
Definitely missionary.
For me, missionary does tend to be one of the faster positions. I can trace the things that do me in faster in terms of general body position. A lot of it has to do with my legs’ positions, how cocked my hips are, and the freedom of my neck.
In general, I actually get off faster doggy style than missionary. Its one more reason I tend to like missionary better 😛
Anything where I can get a lot of hip motion in, something where I can push hard and rhythmically, tends to get me off faster. Which is another reason I dont just start that hard and keep going – it means I dont keep going for *long* 🙂
Hm. Interesting. Cause sometimes with missionary it just is over so …
Uhm. Nevermind.
*grin*
I love you.
Can you show me which you like better? How about tomorrow?
*grin* You betcha.
Except for me it will be today. After a long day of travel starting mid-Monday, I shall arrive in SF at… 9:20 Monday morning. The international date line and its associated time travel are surreal that way.
So from my point of view I will see you today, its just that today will be very long 🙂
Heh. Also: sure, sometimes with missionary it is over pretty quickly… But if you really object, I *can* make a point of going for a lot longer. Usually I just prefer to go again instead of going longer 😉
Tell you what – ask me about this when we can see each other in person, and I shall give you a very specific, ahem, recommendation for the next time you are at all disappointed about not going long enough 🙂
And yes, I *am* posting this as the last thing before I leave for the airport. *grin*