Francesca is gone

Francesca Bennet was one of my adopted moms. I’ve been blessed to have several. Although I never actually called Francesca mom. She and I discussed how she has never been an actual mother and she didn’t feel she needed that distinction at this stage of life because it didn’t have the same meaning for her. But she mentored me. She was one of my closer friends. I didn’t call her enough. I didn’t try hard enough to see her more often and now it is too late.

I’m going to miss her so much. She is the closest to me death I have had as an adult and this is going to be very hard.

8 thoughts on “Francesca is gone

  1. baileythorne

    details?

    I’m stunned. I dated Guy. I was friends with Francesca – though not as close as the two of you. I got on LJ to stay in touch.. never expected it to bring me this kind of news. I’ll drop Guy a note and ask his preferences for honoring her memory.

    2007 was a sad kind of year for me and this is a truly sad start for 2008. Glad to get your ongoing happy baby updates 🙂

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    1. bldrnrpdx

      Re: details?

      Here’s what was posted to our local BDSM list:

      Lots of people want to know what they can do to help. Here’s what you can
      do:

      Francesca was an animal lover. She had a gigantic heart and she cared
      deeply for all living things. So rather than send flowers or other things
      please make a donation to the Humane Society of Southwest Washington.

      Please include “In memory of Holly Francesca Bennett” with your donation

      Holly Francesca Bennett Memorial Fund
      Humane Society for Southwest Washington
      2121 St. Francis Lane
      Vancouver, Washington 98660

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