So today we had a weird interaction in the morning. I wasn’t sure what caused it. But I felt like it was hostile. So after I did my withdraw/pissy thing I thought about it and couldn’t figure out what caused it. So I asked.
My wonderful husband then proceeded to explain what he interpreted about my actions and tone of voice and I did the same about his. We were both reacting to unintended slights and misunderstood tones. We apologized for our respective halves of the misunderstanding and fuss. Then we cuddled and renewed our membership in our mutual admiration society.
Have I mentioned that I love my husband?
from Debs
Any chance I can have him when you’re done with him? 🙂
*sigh*
Happy for you.
Debs
Isn’t perception and misinterpretation strange that way? It amazes me how angry/upset I can be at someone over what I perceive to be his/her intention when that’s not necessarily (or even not USUALLY) the case! At any rate, yay for good communication between the two of you! 🙂