I think you are handling this all wrong. You can’t fix this problem with money. This will blow up in your face sooner or later. I hope that you don’t end up hated for what you are doing.
Until you take some responsibility everything will continue to fail for you. Stop being obsessed with fun. Fun is good and all, but you do have to do the more serious parts of life too.
I don’t understand how you can keep your mouth shut. No really–how do you live with yourself?
If you change the locks while he isn’t home then you don’t have to keep asking him to move out. I’m sure you can get some help in packing all of his belongings in a day.
I think you give good advice m’dear … but I’m not sure what you’re trying to say here.
much love to you, thought about you today.
I’m not trying to say anything to you. 🙂 There are people who don’t want my advice and sometimes I am kind of bursting to give it. This seems like a better plan than causing strife.
Everyone has to come to their own solutions in their own time.
This may be the hardest part of being a parent… to see a situation and have experience and *know* how to proceed, but your child (friend) doesn’t listen because they have their own reality and they aren’t ready to hear what you can share.
Hmm. Usually it seems to be you who doesn’t want other people’s advice.
Very true. People are completely and totally welcome to write the advice they would like to give me anonymously in their journals. 🙂
Heh. Fair enough.
Butt out!!!
What happens between me and my cats is none…NONE of your business!
Re: Butt out!!!
heh