Arbus gave me words. Be afraid.
freedom: Freedom used to be a much bigger motivator for me than it is these days. I used to spend a lot of time worrying about not being tied down. Now I’m kind of fussy cause I am almost never tied down and it makes me sad. Ha. I appreciate being an American. I think that I’m pretty lucky to live in a country that grants me the amount of freedom I have. Yeah, that’s all I’ve got for this one.
femdom: I hate this phrase. I think we should replace it with DomLady and DomFella if we are going to be indicating gender at all. But why do you need to indicated gender at all? What the freakmonkeys is wrong with just calling someone a Dom? It’s lame enough. Why make it lamer? Oy. That said, females who happen to be dominant are pretty hot.
dealing: Drugs? Cards? I am not a complete hypocrite so I will say that I have occasionally thought positive things about drug dealers in my life even though overall I think it’s not a great career choice. I think my sister should stop dealing though because she is stupid and keeps getting caught. Dumbass. I’m a really good card dealer I think.
whirling: When I was a little girl I would try on all of my new clothes (dresses–I didn’t wear pants at all) and give them a whirl because if they didn’t go out far enough I wouldn’t wear them. I still wish that I picked my clothes this way. I love whirling around. I love whirling Shanna around. I have learned that if I concentrate really hard I can make myself orgasm on the spinny rides. How’s that for TMI?
space: God I need a lot of it. I have trouble with people near me physically sometimes and I even have trouble with people in my house. This is MY SPACE damnit! But if you meant that big black thing above us I’m pretty neutral. I’m glad I don’t have to try to breathe there.
femdom
Huh. The only context I’d ever heard that used in before is basically sissification of males by a domme.
I was not offended to have someone call me femdom – but I was fairly new to the group and it didn’t seem to be said in disrespect. I was leaving a party, feeling euphoric, and someone shouted out to me, “Good night, FemDom” Ok. You don’t know my name and you want to wish me a good night when I’m already having one. Cool.
Interesting that others have a different perspective.
Possibly ‘dealing’ like ‘coping’.
I’m not sure I want to know what my five words are…
It sounds like you want some though, so here you go:
Honesty
Questions
Vanilla
Gentle
Ambition
Those words aren’t scary at all. (: Which is good, because I think one of your words is Honesty.
We used to call that spin testing “looking for the twirl factor”. Things had to have a positive twirl factor or they simply weren’t worth the spending money. For me it was because I loved to move, even before I knew how to dance, and because I was self-conscious about anything that showed the shape of my body.