Everything you choose to learn about as you go through life compiles in a fairly unique way.  No one else has your exact family, socio-economic experience, friend experience, food experience, etc.  People are unique.  There are patterns, but there are always sub groups from the sub groups because it’s hard to generalize.

Why don’t I feel like I can have a community?  Why do I feel like that isn’t available to me?  Why?