I’m working through TCTH again.  I love the part where these women rabidly go off on how evil SM is.  You are better off breaking up your marriage and being celibate for the rest of your life than engaging in SM if you are a survivor.  Interesting priorities.  Sex is like alcoholism.  I’ve had bad experiences therefore what I do needs to be tightly controlled.

My mom used to refer to Tom as my sugar daddy.