Today my neighbors told me that despite having come to the blog they will not be coming back. It’s too intense for them. But they followed that with multiple attempts to arrange more in-person time.

I think that is totally appropriate and good. If my writing is upsetting, don’t read it. Truly. If what I say is upsetting, don’t talk to me. Truly.

I’m glad when people take care of themselves. It gives me more belief that it is ok for me to do the same.

I will say that it is very funny to me how often people apologize to me for having boundaries with me. It’s ok. I swear. I don’t actually explode at people and scream at them without significant provocation. Probably more provocation than I endure from anyone I am not related to.