One of my beloved’s is off with a partner who doesn’t like me much. To be fair… I have uncharitable thoughts towards that person. My beloved is still checking in with me to share feelings about how it is going. I am being as loving and supportive as I know how. Your partner doesn’t have to work for me to work for you. I see how much you get from this relationship. I want to support it.

Why can’t I feel this way about Noah?