I would like to delete social media. I would like to stop trying to make friends here. I feel lonely and alienated and unwanted and bad. I feel pointless, stupid, disconnected, and deeply sad. My big “going right” social connection for this year is something that I can have for a short time then I need to let it go. Past that my new connections are going pretty poorly. Hell, he’s not a new connection just a change. A short change before we go back to normal because no actually more is not a good thing.

I feel painfully lonely and like I am deeply uncomfortable with the idea of being in a room with anyone. I would like to rip my skin off. It’s not about any one thing or another. I’ve had to give a police interview about my sexual assault history. That was really deeply fucked up for me. There was being assaulted. There was being asked to leave a vanilla community group. There was a warm and wonderful possibility that floated by on the stream for a little while before moving off. Parenting is always hard.

Being married is always hard. Being me is always hard. It’s not one thing. It’s all of it. I would like a vacation from being in my brain.