This hurts because it describes me.
https://spectrumnews.org/features/deep-dive/costs-camouflaging-autism/
Ha. Now I can’t screw it up again.
Article on autism
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Hm.
So here’s a list of 30 places to consider moving.
Research I should pay for
https://business.highbeam.com/435395/article-1G1-171858947/impact-sexual-coercion-psychological-physical-and-sexual
http://journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10.1177/0886260513506052 (slightly summarized/interpreted here: http://www.medicaldaily.com/repetitive-sexual-assault-affects-psyche-more-we-ever-thought-284542)
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3777339/ from this one:
The latest amendment of the Indian Penal Code concerning rape laws in 2013 claims to be not only gender neutral, but also worded broadly. However, regarding the definition of force and consent, it continues to be ambiguous and fails to address many issues. An example is the exemption from marital rape which assumes marriage to be a generalized sort of consent for a man to have sexual intercourse with a woman whenever he wants. Problems in interpretation of consent also exist in cases in which the defendant and complainant are non-married acquaintances.
https://bmcpublichealth.biomedcentral.com/articles/10.1186/1471-2458-11-29
http://www.who.int/violence_injury_prevention/violence/global_campaign/en/chap6.pdf
I want to be able to find this later
Incest book review and reflection on what it means to write about incest.
https://electricliterature.com/who-gets-to-write-about-sexual-abuse-and-what-do-we-let-them-say-928dfbd184d6
This is why
I want another child because I’m very aware of how few people who are born are wanted. That strikes me as bad for my species.
I like my kids. I like mothering. It’s fun for me. I’m good at it.
Random company plug.
I’ve used AirBnB quite a bit. I don’t hate them or anything. But I heard about another company today offering a similar service but focused on the needs of POC. http://noirbnb.com/ is their website.
They let non POC use their service. Looks pretty rad.
nosiness
I would sincerely like to know who comes to my website constantly from http://www.bond-hardware.com/collections/necklaces-chokers because it seems like such a random referrer to get all the time.
This is me.
On motherhood
This woman is a better writer than me. She wrote about her experience of becoming a mother. It’s beautiful.
The only thing I would say to her: my baby did that and she had a relatively uncomplicated vaginal delivery and she was never really away from me.
Really neat
I wish I had read this article years ago.
Dance video
Our dance teacher told us to watch this video. If you have 15 minutes to spare… it’s about dance but it’s about life and gender and who we have to be.
I WANT!
In a few weeks when I start needing maternity shirts… I’m buying this: http://www.cafepress.com/mf/77953219/fck-gender_maternity?productId=1437421518
This is also lovely: http://www.cafepress.com/mf/86443698/gender-is-not-binary_maternity?productId=1225027311
I should keep track of this.
Apparently I was quoted in an article on Salon.com
Sleeping is for when Noah is home.
I really should sleep. Instead I’m…. uhh… reading Reddit. It’s a fascinating thread about poverty.
But this other one is one is a super neat thing about educating students who come from a variety of kinds of poverty. This is good stuff for anyone who provides direct instruction. How do you help your kids overcome deficits?
I have a lot to say about this but no time to do it. It’s about abusive relationships.
And I want to write about the world changing too,
Sex and the patriarchy
Someone has written about this better than me and I needed to read it this morning.
Yup. That.
A good article
I am cis-sexual. My kid is not. That means I should try not to be an ignorant fuck.
An explanation
I was asked recently what Miss Millie Feminism is and I thought “Hey how about if I let somebody better qualified explain it.”
Well hot damn
I feel like I really needed to read these two essays on power dynamics and consent. They talk about what you are doing and why and your intentions and… Like, right now I had to hear that. What am I doing?
Two links above. Good stuff. No more typing.
bdsm stuff.
yuck
I’m smoking so I can eat dinner. I hate that cycle. I’m way too far gone in sleep dep land.
While I do this… I’ll tell you about my playlist. Cause why not. These are some (probably not all) of the songs I listened to driving to and from the dispensary.
The Harold Song by Ke$ha
The Edge of Glory by Lady Gaga
Dance with the Devil by Immortal Technique
Girl in a Country Song by Maddie and Tae
Not Ready to Make Nice by The Dixie Chicks
Last Goodbye by Ke$ha
Fly by Nicki Minaj and Rihanna
Darling Nikki by Prince (He must have good lawyers. He’s not on youtube.)
Fancy by Reba McEntire
GUY by Lady Gaga
The Fear of Being Along by Reba McEntire
Fireball by Willow Smith
Unpretty by TLC
Trap Queen by Fetty Wap
Waterfalls by TLC
Mollena by James Hunter
George by The Wet Spots
The Right Kind of Wrong by LeeAnn Rimes
I think that’s all I heard tonight.